Fuel the fire of passion in your relationship.

If you are like me, you probably run out of ideas on spicing up and put fire back into your relationship. I am definitely not a guru in all things relationship passion, but, the least I could do is tell you what I heard Rose did to get the fire of passion back in to her relationship.

It was on Friday, and that whole week Rose had a resolve to do something drastic to fuel the fire in her relationship. Her and Matt (her husband), were starting to become automated in their relationship and both of them did not know what had gone wrong or what to do about it. So on Friday Rose left work early to go execute her plan.

In their house on Friday after a shower, some makeup and a little perfume: At 5pm Rose was sitting on the edge of the couch waiting for her husband to get home from work. She had been waiting for a few minutes. She had been feeling like her relationship with Matt was starting to become regular, and she was not about to let that happen.

Dressed in sexy black lace lingerie, under a gray trench coat that she intentionally left unbuttoned, with a pair of red heels for added flare (Red pumps) that compliment her legs perfectly. Rose hears a car pull up in the drive way, she looks out the window and sees her husband Matt getting out of the car.

She picks up a bottle of wine, two long stemmed glasses and elegantly walks to the foyer and stands facing the front door, with her legs half apart. Wine bottle in one hand and two glasses in the other. A rustling of keys and the door opens. Matt walks in with his suit, tie and briefcase.

Matt is a corporate man, very hard working, ambitious and had been working on a big deal that they had just closed on that afternoon. All the late hours and working on weekends had paid off, but not before they took their toll on him and his relationship.

Matt walks in through the door, lifts his eyes and locked them on his sexy dressed wife. He immediately sees that she is wearing his favorite lingerie as it peeked through from the front of her unbuttoned trench coat. Puzzled and pleasantly surprised Matt starts to open his mouth to greet his wife and ask what is going on. Before he could let a word out, Rose in a sexy, take charge and enticing voice said “Shhh… Shut up! Take off all your clothes and meet me in the bedroom naked.” then she turned around and proceeded to walk upstairs in the sexiest way Matt had ever seen.

He was so distracted looking at her, that he did not notice his jaw drop in shock as he stood there by the front door, frozen, amused and aroused. Rose pauses half way up the stairs, turns slightly to look at him and said “Are you still dressed? Don’t make me tell you twice” blows a kiss at him and continues up the stairs.

Matt shakes his head to get out to of his trance, drops his briefcase, locks the front door, takes off all his clothes as fast as he could and runs double steps up the stairs following his wife, with his middle leg stiffly pointing the way forward.

Upstairs, naked Matt walks into the bedroom, having lost all thought and reason and willing to do what ever it took to get relief. He finds Rose sitting up in the middle of the bed wearing her lingerie and red pumps. The trench coat was on the floor, half way between the bed and the bedroom door.

Rose looks at Matt and says “Honey, your dinner is ready down stairs, but today we are going to start with desert..” Matt did not wait for her to finish speaking, he jumped on the bed, reaped off her lingerie and…. I will let you imagine what happened next. All I can say is that Rose will have to go buy new underwear since the one she had were torn to shreds.

That’s how Rose succeeded in her objective of adding fuel to their fire and as for Matt. Well, he had a permanent grin on his face for a few hours.

Take away: Find creative ways to keep fueling the fire. Good news is that, we are all different so there is no one size fits all in the matter. Hence you can customize the fuel to what ever you like.